The Pebles

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A philosophy professor stood before his class and

had some items in front of him. When class began, wordlessly he picked up

a large empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with rocks right to the

top, rocks about 2" in diameter. HE then asked the students if the jar was

full. They agreed that it was. So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles

and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles, of course,

rolled into the open areas between the rocks. The students laughed.

He asked his students again if the jar was full. They agreed that yes, it was.

The professor then picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.

Of course, the sand filled up everything else.

"Now", said the professor, "I want you to recognize that this is your life. The rocks

are the important things-your family, your partner, your health, your children-anything

that is so important to you that if it were lost, you would be nearly destroyed.

The pebbles are the other things in life that matter, but on a smaller scale. The

pebbles represent things like your job, house, or car. The sand is everything else,

the small stuff. If you put the sand or the pebbles in to the jar first, there is no

room for the rocks. The same goes for your life. If you spend all your energy and

time on the small stuff, material things, you will never have room for the things that

are truly most important." Pay attention to the things that are critical in your life.

Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups.

Take your partner out dancing. There will always be time to go to work, clean the

house, give a dinner party and fix the disposal. Take care of the rocks first - the

things that really matter. Set your priorities, the rest is just pebbles and sand.

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